Does
it feel like your friends are constantly talking about sex? Do you
hear about sex all the time on television and in movies? Do you feel
pressure from your peers or your boyfriend to become sexually active?
Do you feel lost and confused amidst all of this sex talk and pressure?
And do you feel afraid to talk to older adults for good advice about
sex? Well, you are most certainly not alone. In the 21st century,
teenagers are faced with much more sexual pressure from their peers
and from society than ever before. You might feel totally weird
talking to your parents about this stuff, because things were just
completely
different when they were your age. It’s important to find somebody
you can confide in, share your concerns with and ask for advice about
sex. And that doesn’t mean your best friend's 17-year-old
sister with the hot pink tube top you borrowed last week, or your
understanding boyfriend. That means somebody you trust and respect, who has
some experience, and who you respect. Maybe you have a teacher you
feel close to, or a counselor, aunt, cool grandma, older cousin
or a family doctor. Find a female adult who you can ask your important
questions without feeling embarrassed. Even with good advice, you
are ultimately the person who decides when to become sexually active … and
you’re the one who gets to live with the choices you make.
That’s why it’s so important for you to know the facts—so
that you can make educated and informed decisions.
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Teen Parenting
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