Most
pregnant women are concerned about miscarriage.
And every woman who has suffered through
a miscarriage knows those concerns are
real. In fact, 20% of all pregnancies
end in miscarriage. Miscarriages are sometimes
referred to as spontaneous abortions—the
loss of a fetus even before you know you’re
pregnant. Miscarriages are the body's
natural way of dealing with an abnormal
pregnancy. Some of the factors that may
contribute to a miscarriage include:
- Smoking
- Drug use
- Hormonal imbalance
- Certain infections
- Severe illness in mother
- Uterine abnormalities
- Genetic abnormalities
- Exposure to a large amount of radiation
- Severe accident
A miscarriage is usually characterized
by bleeding accompanied by cramps and
pain in the center of the lower abdomen.
If you experience heavy bleeding or if
you pass clots of pink or grey matter,
call your provider. Sometimes women experience
bleeding and do not have miscarriages,
but deliver healthy babies at the planned
due date. It’s never wrong to play
it safe.
Many women live in fear that
everything they do will cause a miscarriage. Contrary to your beliefs,
sexual intercourse will not cause a miscarriage
(unless your doctor tells you that you're at a high-risk), nor
will moderate exercise, emotions or stress, or a minor fall/accident.
Some women who have already experienced one miscarriage believe
they
are doomed—a false fear. Miscarriage is a common and, sometimes,
natural occurrence—your body’s way of letting you know
your child would not survive outside of the womb. If you experience
a miscarriage, remember you’re still normal and you can try
again.
Coping with a miscarriage can be an emotional
and trying experience. It may be difficult
to fully mourn your loss because you never
had the chance to hold or see your baby.
It may also be difficult because you don’t
have enough support—maybe nobody
knew you were pregnant, or maybe you keep
hearing the words “try again.”
It’s also difficult for you to grieve
without a concrete memorial service or
way of saying goodbye to your unborn baby.
If you’re dealing with these frustrations,
remember many women go through miscarriages,
sometimes multiple miscarriages, in their
life. There are support groups for women
coping with miscarriage at your local
hospital, through your provider’s
office, or even on the web. Discuss
your pain with others and grieve. When
you feel up to it, you may want to try
to get pregnant again, but first talk
to your provider about your risks.
Click below to read about related topics.
Introduction
Prenatal Care
Childbirth Education
Lifestyle Guidelines
Miscarriage
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